Passing of Loved Ones, Love and Transition
For those of you who have had loved ones who have passed, this article may bring forth gifts. To understand the transitional journey back to soul is a wonderful undertaking to all parties.
When a spirit leaves a body and lifetime it can go through several processes before it returns to gold, or the light. One can maintain a relationship with the spirit of a loved one and still maintain present time community if they know how too shift awareness to the new state the loved has transitioned to.
In one life time we create a story and persona that is rich in growth, trials, and experiences. When a person has crossed over they either let go completely and blend back into the peace and joy of their master soul, or they have difficulty in detaching from the story they once became in life and still hold onto the lessons and agreements rather than complete the transition.
With those who have lost a loved one, they never really died in the way we perceive, they simply left a body, story, and identity that they created within a moment of their larger souls journey. If you are to remember that we are soul first and this is our eternal self then you can always maintain your love, relation, and connection with this soul as it exists on a higher vibrational plane than the one you are looking at that was the former life. This helps both you and the loved one embrace present time. Saying hello to a loved one as their soul is always a healing for both parties as you validate their ability to liberate themselves from the conditions and struggles into freedom and this is right.
We are not meant to hang on to the strife of a lifetime and sometimes those that transition stay there because they love you and you yourself is stuck in the memory of who you have lost. To understand that you did not loose and you can still gain if you raise your sights to the vibrational plane of where they now stand is to understand the peace, joy, and sanctuary that they have now reached. Quite often I tell my clients who have asked about lost loved ones to send them jokes and see if you get one in return. Raising your vibration in order to have a new level of relationship is the embankment of you gifting yourself the experience to know we are all of God and in that there is only journey….no finite end. To understand the full vibration of what is soul is your gift to yourself and your loved one. There your relationship holds new value and meaning of the blessing and light of what truly is of God.
In Joy,
Rev. Cynthia Warwick Seiler
www.rainbowinstitute.com
The Will of God
The will of God is that you love yourself as God does, unconditionally.
Often times we withhold our self acceptance in anticipation of our perfection and this is not achievable as it is an image that is not real and typically not finite. Who we are today, right here, right now, is the way we are loved by God, love is not nor has ever been withheld. Usually we turn our backs to this love because we do not feel our perfection and for some strange reason think we are unworthy of the approval because we lack this key self approval intimately.
More over we resist acceptance of ourselves and then think, I’ll prove it now, I’ll go out and save the world, then I will be worthy of the love of God. God does not see this world as a world that needs saving. God loves you in your world unconditionally, and does not equate you as different from your neighbor. To love yourself as God loves you is to take your compassion up to a new height and know unconditional love. Total acceptance of the entire world is total acceptance of you in your world, the mini me that makes up the whole.
Opening up to the will of God is the act of self love first.
Taking your self love up in vibration to meet the compassion of “unconditional love” gifting yourself radical self acceptance in the here and now, is the way you meet and understand the only will of God. Then you will understand that you have always and will always be your perfection in the wake of every moment and can love others as much as you love yourself. “Self love” is a form of “divine love” or the most important doorway back to source. Upon entering this doorway you will know that you are one with all things including source, and that is not a world that needs saving.
But then we say “what about suffering?” Is it not the seed of suffering to stray from the only thing that created you? You were created by the will of God, to know unconditional love is to heal yourself with divine love, the only doorway you were meant to know. You can create anything you want, when you do it immersed in the love source has given you how can your creation be anything other than life giving and rich? To know you are worthy in the moment with radical self acceptance wouldn’t your creations take on new color and new life expression? Do you think you would include the vibration of suffering in them? In the wake of every moment you and each one of us is new should we choose to be and can end the feelings of suffering with a self loving act of acceptance. It can not be found in you healing another if you do not work to heal yourself first in order for you to feel the will of God inside the seeds of your cells. Saving the world is an act of denying yours. Work with the creator in perfecting your creation, and return to the simple act of loving yourself and you will have given your world and ours a huge leap towards oneness.
In Blessings, Love and Joy,
Rev. Cynthia Warwick Seiler
Rainbow Institute/A Course in Miracles
Unconditional Love and the Creator
Many, many eons ago there was this great being of light, just one great being. Some say it was a he, some say it was a she. If one was able to fathom thought without duality it was possibly a “we” as an integral he and she as one dancing twin flame of light and delight. This one being existed as the universe, a blank canvas upon which it was to paint life. This being knew only love, only joy, and had an unconditional mind.
Its brilliance was awesome. Its brilliance was fantastic. Its brilliance was the divine mind, and it had a plan. That which is liken only to itself began to divide. It would breath thought into life, life into thought and children would pop out of its mind, its heart, its hands. Its every thought would manifest into another great being, and yet another, and yet another. This was my brothers, my sisters, you. It was the birth of souls, of starseeds, kingdoms, and solar systems. From one single monad began the seeds of everything we know life to be and no matter how we explain it, it is correct, how ever a vantage point.
Of course this being loved all of its creations, how perfect each and every one this being marveled, nurtured, and gave unconditional love. It did not see one better than the other, judged not a favorite. Each one had a meticulous part to play in the unfolding and dividing of the universe of life.
In that first initial pure thought that gave life, each and every life form had a purpose, a dynamic that was unique and interesting all were birthed with unconditional love. Each mind child if you will was perfect, capable, strong, intentful, magical, unique, special, and had a dynamic of no other. Yet each one was connected in some way shape or form to the whole. Being of pure thought each seed of thought was given the capability to think for itself, matriculate, multiply and was part of the same mathematical equation, connected to the same master matrix and geometry. Each one had a scientific explanation (except for possibly the creator being itself….or does it?) Each child creation was meant to divide, explore, all under the umbrella of the creator, the soft loving place where it was born.
The child beings began to play, however their playing was not fully free. Being under the one creator being they were governed lightly. This did not allow for full unequivocal free will, as it was influenced. The child beings were limited by the greatness and could not fully imagine outside of its nestling. They wanted more, afterall this one great being got its start from another universe and had the full right to grow up into all that is, they would argue and debate. The debate grew into wanting experiences to learn tangibles so they could understand fully who they are, what they were here for, what the great being already knew. They wanted to know something about themselves.
With unconditional love and full understanding of its creations it agreed to let go with out attachment in order for its birthing s to learn, and grow, experience and know of their own choosing. This great being let go. Its children were elated and began to build using the same geometry they were gifted from the one who formed many. The sacred building blocks are still seen today. They used light and geometry, love, and intention and began to construct together and apart, saying I wonder what would happen if I do this? Think this? Play with this? They began to form agreements to play in certain containers, you and me lets play over here, lets play like this, lets, lets, lets. They had so much fun that some of them strayed far and forgot their creator, left him as they began to divide. Some chose to remain and stay by his side, playing and creating with their initial purpose, their original blueprint of their seed.
Even though the love is and always was unconditional there was one valuable contingency in the plan: That great being of light made sure of one gift as a promise ever more, no matter what to all. Its promise was whispered into each heart of its creations and they sounded something like this. “You may stray, yet I will remember your one true name” “You may forget, I will remember your one true purpose” “You may loose sight of the tools I have given, I will hide them within your being” “You may think you live and breath alone, I will breath with you when you want to come home” “You will always contain a spark of me no matter how far, small, or large you play and when you want a game eradicated just call upon my name” “I will not leave you and will experience with you even if you think I am the one who strayed” “I will be there waiting for you to remember me and will always see your perfection, no matter what as you are the gift I made”
This great being choose to never forget his creations, no matter what. Coming home was built into the plan. Coming home does not have a rule or form…except for one thing……….. remembering who you are.
Many blessings from now until eternity for those who choose to remember and those who choose to forget.
In Joy,
Rainbow Institute/ A course in miracles
A place where you have the opportunity to play with the original building blocks!
A true story? You decide…
“I forgive those things that have yet come to pass”
Weekly Affirmation Enneagram “I forgive those things that have yet come to pass”
When we struggle and resist we hold on to what we are trying to overcome in our energy system. This week allow yourself to forgive that which you are fighting, resisting and holding on to. Allow it to pass through you. Release and surrender as you embrace what is surfacing. Gift the spiritual warrior, the inner martyr in you a break, a vacation and let go of what your will tells you is your spiritual battle ground.
Remember the light in your heart and surrender the fight knowing your light tells you “this too will eventually come to pass”
Blessings,
Rev. Cynthia Warwick Seiler
Weekly Affirmation Enneagram
www.rainbowinstitute.com
The Higher Will and The Lower Will, Oh My
What actually transpires when we have an aspiration? A vision of greatness? A dream we reach for? What gets in the way? What happens when we heal and shift?
When we transition from what we have to choosing what we want to experience, the mechanics that kept us out of the experience begin to shift. They rise up to the surface to be released and cleared, which is great except for one small problem….we get in the way!
Consider you received an unwanted experience in your past that was radically different than that you choose, lets call that experience an apple, and the experience you are most in affinity with is an orange. When you received the apple you were not neutral to it, as you are asking for the orange you built up radical opinions to the apple, probably hated it for showing up and messing up your lunch. The apple was a gift to show you something about your lower will, your karma, a treasure of learning experiences lived in that apple, however they did not fully validate you.
The apple made you learn that you really wanted the orange. You prayed to the orange with the focal point of the apple not being good enough, you really validated the existence of the apple. Then you learned how to cultivate and plant the seeds of the orange. You watered the seeds, affirmed their growth, let them sit in the light to grow. The orange tree begins to blossom a small flower as you see it emerging out of the ground. Hey it is enthusiasm time, you get excited. The next day you wake up ready to see if the orange appeared and right out in front of your consciousness is a apple the size of Mt St Helen. You screech an overwhelming “EEEK”. Much to your dismay your feel doomed to applehood. What just happened? Consider the totality of the apple was coming to the surface to say goodbye to you before it heads out the door for eternity, it simply was at that stage and had no judgment of you whatsoever. You had judgment of it and at that point your focus shifted from the joy of receiving the orange into fighting and engaging the apple. The apple then became locked in transit and could not leave like it planned, more so it has now become a real emotional enemy and an unwanted guest.
So what happens now? Most of us forget about the orange tree, no longer water it, leave it to wilt, and engage our unwanted guest and beat ourselves up about its occupancy in our life. It must be my fault, your fault, everyone fault that the apple has arrived and would not leave. Now it takes twice as much work to release the apple. The apple has become karmic.
Consider that the higher will has and always wanted you to be happy, it wants you to experience both the apple until it is ready to go (because at some point in your time frame you cultivated it) and the orange when it is ready to arrive. As the apple is packing its bags to leave and just wants to spend a moment to say thank you and goodbye, celebrate it, thank it, and surrender it to the higher will. You may have to do this over and over again (consider you can only let go of one bite at a time if you really were holding on with both hands, or worse yet you turned it into apple sauce) and go back to water your orange blossom with the joy and knowing that it is coming in to meet you very soon. The more you learn spiritual tools to effectuate releasing the apple and bringing in the orange the more you will enjoy both aspects of your transition with light and joy.
In joy,
Cynthia Warwick Seiler
Rainbow Institute
Entering the Dominion of Oneness
Oneness is the place of going home, rekindling your connection with source. So much about our journey here on earth was about breaking away from source to find ourselves and our individuality, what makes us tick, unique, and different.
Individuality is important, and to learn that we are individuals and are still one is an amazing feat that is really easy when you understand that there is nothing you do that is ever outside of source. Where you feel outside of source and separated is where you have misunderstood your own self, thus it is easy to find your way home simply by clearing up your own self- misconceptions.
Radical self acceptance is the way home. Being OK with everything you think you are not and everything you think you are is your own home coming. To reunite with Great Spirit is to reunite with the love that you are. To sit in the middle of the everything and the nothing is to enter into a huge “OK-Ness” about yourself with radical self acceptance, the great emptiness of pure life force, which is the most peaceful part of coming home.
To accept yourself wholly and completely even though you think something less of yourself is to reunite with the truth in brotherhood and of your own meaning. We are not dark, nor light, we simply use the light and dark as a way to benchmark and understand there is something to strive for. When we are ok in understanding that we play in both the light and dark in a self judging way and then accept ourselves and where we are at completely for it, then we have opened the door to oneness by the dismantlement of the dividing wall with an act of self love.
Radical self acceptance is the door to the dominion of oneness…it is a very simple door. It is a very peaceful threshold.
May you find this door within you and walk through it into the nothing and everything…the peace that you are…and know that you are home.
Many blessings,
Cynthia Warwick
Cynthia Warwick is a spiritual teacher and counselor, she is available for psychic readings and classes, to learn more about her work click on the links above.
Receiving Pure Love
Relationships with others are important on our souls journey, however they are not the most freeing aspects of our experience, but can be when you live life as spirit intends. Initially when we walk towards living life as spirit we meet up with conditional love over and over again. This creates alot of resistance and disappointment, here is how to clear it.
Love, unconditional love is something we are all working towards. Unless we are in relationship to Buddha or Gandhi most of the love that comes our way comes without clarity, definition or boundary. Someone can love us but that love comes mixed with all of that persons misunderstandings, fears, limits, and the obstacles they are working through to overcome on their own journey. Most of the time we receive love with conditions and it does not feel good. We want to have the relationship yet we resist its gift in the same note because it creates limit once we take it in.
As spirit you can choose and learn how to separate out the love from the limits of the person sharing the expression, knowing that the limit is theirs but the intention of love is the gift they wish to share with this knowledge you can allow your intention to free both you and them. You do not have to take in any limit of their life experience to know they love you, as this is their condition they need for their growth and development and does not serve either of you to share it. However the love does serve both of you to share it. Using your intention to set this boundary on what comes into your being and sort out what is not yours or serves you to take in is a affirmation of unconditional love and unconditional acceptance of the other.
Love is not meant to be combined with limit as love itself is freeing but the limit is typically intwined in love, letting the limit go is a service to love, and to understand those who love us are not perfect but the love they offer is the most important thing we share in relationship to them frees everyone.
Love yourself and everyone you know enough to set this boundary and make it work to enhance your communication and your giving and receiving of love!
Namaste,
Cynthia Warwick
Cynthia Warwick is a meditation instructor, spiritual counselor, and clairvoyant that teaches how to live life consciously to enhance our lives, relationships and life experience.